Will spanking a child's back hurt him?

Some babies are very naughty at ordinary times. Some parents don’t know how to discipline their children, so they can only beat and scold them to let the babies know that they have made mistakes. Usually, parents are angry with their babies and are in a rage. When they beat and scold the babies, they often don’t know how to use enough force, which can easily hurt the babies. Sometimes they accidentally hit the back of the children. Will hitting the back of the children hurt them?

Will spanking a child's back hurt him?

Hitting a child on the back will hurt the child. It is generally not recommended to hit a child on the back. It is best to hit the child's buttocks.

How to educate your children well?

1. The main factor affecting children’s academic performance is not the school, but the family.

2. If there is a problem with family education, the child may have a hard time in school and may very likely become a “problem child” at school.

3. The mothers of children with good grades are usually people who are well-planned and efficient. The more serious, organized and polite the father is, the better his children's grades will be.

4. Poverty is an important educational resource, but the poorer the child is, the less beneficial it is for his growth. As parents, we need to provide our children with basic cultural information so that they do not fall into the abyss of inferiority caused by poverty and lack of ambition.

5. Wealth is another higher-level educational resource. The experience of Westerners is: "It takes three generations of effort to cultivate an aristocrat." "Class is hereditary." However, higher-level educational resources require higher-level educational skills. Without higher-level educational skills, wealthy families will bring disaster to their children's growth.

6. Don’t be a parent who is knowledgeable but uneducated. Some people have a high level of education, but they are not necessarily cultured. If a parent does not know how to live, does not know how to treat others well, and even does not know how to treat his own children well, no matter how high his academic level is, he is an uncultured person.

7. Parents can make their children the center of the world, but don’t forget that they also have to live an independent life. If parents revolve completely around their children and have no theme of their own life, such parents will often interfere with their children's growth in the name of love. Sometimes, it’s not that children cannot live without their parents, but that parents cannot live without their children.

8. Parents need to take responsibility for educating their children, but they should not completely abandon their own leisure life because of educating their children. "Not having a sense of responsibility hurts others, but being too responsible hurts yourself."

9. If parents pick up their children as soon as they cry, the children will take advantage of this characteristic of their parents and often pester them and make more demands. Therefore, when the child is crying, don’t rush to pick him up. It is better for parents to find something to do and let the child watch them do things skillfully.

10. The relationship between husband and wife affects the child’s personality. If a man does not respect his wife, then his son will learn to disrespect his female classmates at school. If a woman does not respect her husband, then her daughter will learn to look down on her male classmates at school.

11. Education is to cultivate people's spiritual appearance. The mission of parents and teachers is to let children gradually take responsibility for their spiritual growth, remove all kinds of filth that may be contaminated, and cultivate the spiritual "seeds" in people, so that people can breathe the mountain air and feel proud.

12. Well-educated parents are "Voltairians" who say, "I may not agree with what you say, but I will defend to the death your right to say it." They started to reason with their children from the day they were born and patiently sought their opinions. Don't expect that beating and scolding your children will make them learn to obey. The result of killing a chicken in front of a monkey is: the monkey also learned to kill chickens.

13. Let your child become a person who is both passionate and rational. “Without passion, no great undertaking can begin; without reason, no great undertaking can end.”