What should I do if my child gets angry easily?

Parents should pay attention to children who get angry easily. First, we should see if there is a problem with their physical health, and then see if there is a psychological deviation. All of these things need to be done. If a child gets angry easily, it will first affect the child's health. It will also be detrimental to the child's character formation and future growth. Parents should find the cause and then provide appropriate guidance.

When children are unwell, sleepy or tired, they are likely to express their dissatisfaction by losing their temper.

If parents are more indulgent towards their children and usually keep their word, when the children's demands and wishes continue to escalate and one day they are rejected and postponed by their parents, the children may explode due to lack of training in waiting and self-control, and cannot withstand the test of "delayed gratification".

The reason why children often lose their temper is that they feel neglected, and they use temper to attract their parents' attention. When parents understand the reasons why their children lose their temper, they can take corresponding measures. Because when a child has an emotional outburst, blaming, beating or scolding him/her will only make his/her temper worse.

A child's temper tantrum not only seriously damages the child's emotional and physical state, but also makes parents feel embarrassed and difficult. Therefore, parents should find ways to stop their children from crying and losing their temper. How should we stop it correctly? It is necessary to prescribe the right medicine according to the cause of the temper in order for it to be effective.

One of the suggestions from emotion experts for children who throw tantrums because their needs are not met is to give them the cold shoulder. It means that parents use a listening, gentle and calm attitude to show their concern for their children and accompany them through the emotional peak. Wait until the child calms down before communicating with him/her to show that you disapprove of his/her unreasonable demands. Even outside. After repeating this several times, the child will feel that losing temper and crying are meaningless, and that he or she cannot get the attention of the parents or what he or she wants. Gradually, he or she will stop losing temper.

If a child gets angry easily just because his or her goals are not met, parents must not blindly follow the child's opinions at this time, but should look at the child's requests rationally. Blindly satisfying and spoiling the child will only make things worse, which is very detrimental to the child's growth and the formation of a good character. It can be said that this is not love, but harm.