What to do if your child blushes when talking nervously

Many people have experienced blushing when they were nervous about speaking when they were young, and even now they still experience similar phenomena. Parents. Teachers also have a headache with children who blush when they are nervous when speaking, and encouragement sometimes does not work. What should I do about this? How can we help children solve the problem of blushing when they are nervous when speaking? Let’s take a look together!

Whether it is a boy or a girl, there are two situations when they are nervous about speaking.

One is being overly shy and getting nervous only when seeing the opposite sex or the opposite sex that one likes.

One is to be nervous in unfamiliar environments, but not nervous in familiar environments.

One is not nervous when there are few people around, but gets nervous when facing the public in a crowded place.

If it is because of shyness, then this is a natural reaction. Don't pay too much attention to it. Everyone has a stage like that. No matter whether you are a boy or a girl, just pay attention to speaking appropriately. You can focus on other aspects when speaking, such as the scenery, other passers-by, or the furnishings in the house. This will make you relax. Pay attention to creating a suitable speaking space for yourself. For example, if you are nervous and afraid that the other person will find out, you can talk to him/her in a crowded place, so that you don't have to speak loudly. Of course, the effect of speaking will be greatly weakened. Or you can talk in an environment with music. It depends on what you like.

People who are nervous in unfamiliar environments can look for opportunities to proactively chat. Chat with people who look pleasing to the eye and whom you think have a good attitude. Start with simple questions, such as the weather and the city's appearance, and gradually move on to family, children, and your own past experiences. This way, it is easier to generate common topics. If you are a young person, it will be easier to find topics, from a book to a school experience. In this way, gradually you will find at least one stranger friend in this environment, and gradually change the sense of strangeness. Eliminate your nervousness

I am not nervous when there are few people around, but I am nervous in public. This is where nervousness occurs most, because speaking in public means that one's speech must be appropriately solemn. The topic is serious. Except for talk shows in entertainment programs, casual topics are generally avoided. There won't be many occasions like this, so remember to make adequate preparations before going on stage. Remember the outline and order of your speech, so that even if you forget the words, it will not affect the overall effect too much.

Remember to face the audience in front of you when you go on stage. You can choose to place your eyes towards the midfield so that people won’t think you are shy with your eyes downcast. You won't feel nervous because you can see people's expressions too clearly. Increase the volume appropriately according to your normal speaking tone, and don't think about finishing your speech immediately, as this will only make you more and more nervous. Pay attention to things that distract yourself, such as lighting. You can think of yourself as two parts: one is the performer on the stage, and the other is your own spectator. In this way, I perform for myself and feel myself detached from the atmosphere of the venue, and gradually I can control my own state. If it is an informal public occasion, such as a dinner with a large group of people.

At this time, you should act according to your own personality. If you are introverted, pay more attention to listening. Don't ignore everyone's topic just because you don't speak. Then gradually find topics that interest you, express yourself slowly, and use gestures and expressions. In this way, you will naturally become less nervous, and even if you blush for a moment, it will eventually subside.

It is normal for children to be nervous and blush when speaking because they are mentally immature, and parents do not need to worry or be anxious too much. I believe that as time goes by and the child continues to train and grow, the situation of being nervous and blushing when speaking will be alleviated. It is recommended that parents do not put too much pressure on their children, otherwise it will easily lead to over-exertion.