What should we pay attention to in the education of adolescent boys?

The education of adolescent boys is the biggest concern of parents. For parents, it is very necessary to understand the relevant matters that need to be paid attention to in the education of adolescent boys. So what should we pay attention to in the education of adolescent boys? Next, this article will introduce to you what you should pay attention to in the education of adolescent boys. Friends who want to know more about the relevant knowledge can take a look! Please see the detailed introduction below.

1. Avoid intimidating or ignoring children.

Whenever children are naughty or make mistakes, many parents will unconsciously threaten their children with words such as "I don't want you anymore" so that the children will "give in" out of fear. Some also adopt the approach of ignoring the children and give them the cold shoulder. If children are intimidated and neglected in this way for a long time, they are prone to reactions such as tension, anxiety, depression, sensitivity, fear, and may even suffer from developmental problems, mental retardation, neurasthenia, paranoia, and compulsion.

2. Avoid "negating" the child's efforts through comparison.

Many parents pursue perfection and ignore their children's efforts, simply because their children do not meet the "best" or "ideal" standards, and then negate their achievements. For example, some parents have too high expectations for their children and often compare their children with their neighbors' children. If they don't do well in an exam, they will say to their children: "Look, Xiao Wang is smarter than you and he got 2 points more than you this time." Long-term denial of children's achievements will have adverse effects, preventing children from evaluating themselves correctly and gradually becoming inferior and depressed. As children grow up, they will constantly transform external evaluations into self-evaluations. Long-term negative evaluations of children will affect their ability to evaluate themselves correctly and cause them to lose confidence.

3. Avoid using exaggerated words to influence children.

Many times, parents do not notice the exaggeration in their words and make a big deal out of small matters. Some parents even "distort" things. If a child makes a mistake accidentally, some parents will exaggerate the consequences. This will greatly stimulate the child, making him or her timid and cowardly and more likely to make mistakes. Even if he or she makes a mistake, he or she will not dare to tell his or her parents. This will also lay the seeds for many bad behaviors in the future, such as lying, quarreling, and cheating. The child will also be prone to making mistakes when he or she grows up.

The above is an introduction about what to pay attention to in the education of adolescent boys. I believe that after reading the above introduction, you will know what to pay attention to when educating adolescent boys. I hope that the above introduction will be helpful to friends who want to understand what to pay attention to in the education of adolescent boys.