What should I do if my baby often loses his temper?

Children are the apple of their parents' eyes, and under the national conditions and policies of our country, most families have only one child, so parents cannot gain experience in educating their children by raising one child from a young age. So I don’t know where to start when dealing with things like children throwing tantrums. So what should you do if your baby often loses his temper?

Losing temper is inevitable for a child in the process of growth and development, and it is also related to innate temperament. A child's behavioral habits are largely the result of interaction with his or her parents. In addition to some innate temperamental characteristics, the development of many behavioral habits of babies is related to the education methods of their parents. When a child shows signs of bad behavior, stop it in time, but don't stop it rudely. Be firm but gentle. Firmness shows your attitude, and the child will feel that losing your temper and denying is useless. Gentleness expresses your acceptance and love for the child, so that the child will not feel hurt when being stopped. We need to give more care, but we must not be overly accommodating, do not compromise easily on things that cannot be done, always have a consistent attitude, and avoid unconscious reinforcement, that is, saying no but showing joy on the face, which is not conducive to the child's behavior shaping. When your child is crying, you can pretend that you don’t understand what she means and ignore her unreasonable demands.

When children realize that crying is meaningless, they will adjust themselves and learn to accept your attitude. Regarding temper issues, some children have congenital differences in their neurological types, and at this age they have a little autonomy and will have their own demands. The key is how parents deal with his child's demands. If they cannot be met, do not force them. Instead, use the method of diversion, especially when the child does well, give timely praise and rewards (not necessarily material things), and gradually let the child establish more good behavior patterns. Tell the elderly not to satisfy their children blindly. Sometimes when a child loses his temper, you can temporarily ignore him. Family members must have the same opinions on education. However, only parents’ persistence will make children know that their behavior should be restrained. This good habit formed from childhood will have an impact on their future life. Educational issues during this period may be somewhat difficult. I hope you can read some books on behavior shaping to correctly train and educate your children.

Children are the rising sun, the hope of the motherland, and an important force in promoting social development. So parents have a great responsibility. Parents not only need to provide their children with material food, but also the very important spiritual food. Parents should always give their children full love, not let their children feel empty and lonely, and always pay attention to their children's mental and psychological state.