How to educate a 13-year-old boy

Boys enter puberty when they reach the age of 13. The personality of children at this stage is in the process of developing towards independence. They are more rebellious, do not like the discipline of their parents and teachers, and like to show off their individuality. The education of boys is particularly important at this time. If we do not seize the opportunity to educate children and allow them to grow up freely, it may have an irreversible impact on their future. How to educate a 13-year-old boy? Let's take a look.

1. How to educate a 13-year-old boy?

1. When your child talks to you about something he is interested in, you should concentrate on listening. Don't pretend to listen or listen while doing something else.

2. Even if you disagree with the child's opinion at the beginning, you must listen patiently to the end, fully understand their ideas, and then express your own views in the form of exchanging opinions. Avoid long-winded preaching and causing the child to be disgusted.

3. Speak to your children in a respectful tone rather than a didactic tone. Your respect for children will earn their respect. In this way, you will become their good friend and communication will be convenient.

4. We must face up to the growth of children’s self-awareness, help them correctly deal with the physical and psychological characteristics of their age, and at the same time clearly point out their own childishness, dependence and one-sidedness in cognition.

5. Children’s opinions can be sought on all major and minor matters at home. If their opinions are reasonable or consistent with those of adults, decisions should be made based on their opinions. This can increase children’s self-confidence and sense of responsibility, thus reflecting a harmonious parent-child relationship. This naturally led to the great river of "enemy period".

2. Do not approve of beating children

Beating is a failed way of education; good children are praised. A good environment is the basis for creating an outstanding talent. To achieve excellent results, one needs talent and the other needs acquired efforts. Acquired efforts depend on the guidance of parents.

3. Develop good living and learning habits

In the process of educating children, we should fully believe in their abilities and create opportunities for them to educate themselves, develop themselves, and improve themselves. If a child does not study well, you should encourage him/her by saying: I believe you will be able to learn it well with your ability; encourage your child to make a short-term plan, determine what to study and when every day... and so on. Let your child develop the habit of previewing and reviewing, pay attention in class, and organize notes after class. If you have any questions, ask the teacher in time. Never wait until tomorrow to solve today’s problems. Solve today’s problems on the same day. Habits become second nature, and good study habits are formed.

13 years old is the study stage of junior high school, if parents use the above methods to make friends with their children. Creating a good learning environment for children and using the above-mentioned educational methods to cultivate their learning habits is basically a good educational foundation. This period of junior high school is to lay the foundation for high school. If this foundation is solid, there is no need to worry about not excelling in high school. There are only six years from junior high school to high school, and your children will soon be sent to college. No matter how hard it is for parents during this period, they must persevere. The education from the age of 13 to 19 is the most critical, the most difficult and the most rewarding.