Reasons why children don't like to talk

Language is an innate gift of human beings and a bond for emotional exchange. Communication occupies a very important part in our daily life and is one of the important ways to solve most problems. Many parents feel very worried that their children are not talkative and do not like to communicate with others. At this time, parents should understand the reasons why their children are not talkative, and then prescribe the right medicine to solve the problem.

1. Family environment

It may also be due to family reasons. In some families, the parents are not talkative, so the atmosphere in the family environment is always very quiet. As a result, the children have no one to talk to, so they will naturally become quiet. Therefore, parents must not be quiet when living with their children.

2. Parents’ Education

Another reason is due to parental education problems. It may be because some parents are too strict with their children and work long hours and have no time to accompany their children. This will cause the children to be in a very lonely environment and have no friends to talk to, so the children's personality will become introverted, which will cause the children to be quiet.

3. Personality Issues

Another reason may be the child's personality problem. Some children are born introverted, so they don't like to talk and don't like to express their ideas. When your child is introverted, it is recommended that parents must take the initiative to communicate with their children and listen more to their children's inner thoughts. Although introverted, this personality can be changed.

4. Lack of security

There is another type of child who lacks a sense of security. This type of child is unwilling to communicate with others. This type of child is generally unwilling to tell others his or her true thoughts and will feel defensive towards others. At this time, parents must not only be busy with their own work, but must take more time to accompany their children so that their children can feel a certain sense of security.

5. Lack of opportunities to interact with outsiders

Some children are not silent, but they lack opportunities to interact with outsiders. This requires parents not to always keep their children at home. Some parents keep their children at home for fear that something unexpected will happen to their children when they go out to play. This is a very wrong approach, as it will make children even less talkative. It is recommended that such parents must change this approach and let their children go out to play appropriately.

6. Parents’ Criticism

When children do something wrong, the first thing parents do is to criticize them, but parents should know that sometimes understanding is more effective than criticism. Criticism will not only not help the children, but will also have a certain impact on the children's psychology. Especially for those introverted children, if they are criticized by their parents, it may hurt their self-esteem, so parents must pay attention to their own behavior.

Do parents know the reasons why their children don’t like to talk? If a child doesn’t like to talk, a large part of it may be caused by the parents.