The child is introverted because of the parents

Although a child's personality is influenced by innate factors, the vast majority of it is caused by the acquired environment. Parents accompany their children through the most experiences, so they are the biggest influence on the development of their children's character. Some children may have introverted personalities. The main reason may be that their parents have a negative influence on their children's growth.

Children's introversion and low self-esteem are mostly related to these 3 behaviors of their parents. Don't take it lightly.

1. Ignoring children’s ideas: Many parents like to do everything for their children. Parents have the final say in everything. Their educational concept is still stuck on “children should do whatever their parents tell them to do”. No matter what kind of objections the children raise, they are simply ignored and rejected outright. The children’s opinions are not considered at all. In the long run, children will become untrustworthy in themselves because their opinions will not be taken seriously at all. As a result, they will become less and less talkative and become more and more introverted and inferior.

2. Comparing children in front of others: Many parents like to compare their own children with other children. When comparing, please do not do so in front of your children’s classmates or outsiders, because children have strong self-esteem. For children, if they have not achieved the expected results after their efforts, they will be very sad. If they are compared with other children by their parents, or even criticized in front of others, it will only make them negative and will not motivate them. Encouraging children behind their backs is what parents should do!

3. Lack of companionship: Like the mother above, she lacks companionship for her children, but still says that her children are introverted and have low self-esteem. For children, parental companionship is necessary spiritual nourishment in the process of growth. Once lacking, they will become anxious and insecure, show a defensive attitude to the outside world, be unwilling to interact with outsiders, gradually become withdrawn, and slowly become introverted in the eyes of others. Therefore, parents should try their best to take time to accompany their children, provide high-quality companionship, and let their children gradually open their hearts.

Children's introversion and low self-esteem are mostly related to these three behaviors of their parents. Don't take it lightly! The influence of parents' behavior on children cannot be replaced by anything, so parents should not always say how their children are. What they should consider is why their children have become what they are now. It is the parents' fault if they don't raise them well. It is not necessarily the children's fault if the children do not develop in the direction expected by their parents! I wish our little angels can grow up happily!