Introverted, cowardly, inferior, lonely

In life, some people are introverted, some are cowardly, inferior and withdrawn. Such a personality will have a negative impact on life and work, especially for some children. If they are cowardly, inferior and withdrawn, as parents, they should first reflect on their own personality factors. They should encourage their children to participate in more social life and more activities organized by the school, and work hard to improve such bad mental state.

What to do if you are introverted, cowardly, inferior and lonely

1. If a child has a cowardly character, parents should first reflect on their own character.

Is it because one of the parents has a stronger personality, causing the other to be more submissive and weak? Children will learn their parents' words and actions, and will also determine their own personality based on family relationships.

2. Reduce criticism of children and encourage them more

A child's self-esteem is much stronger than parents imagine. When you criticize him many times, his heart has been hit hard, and in the long run he will develop an inferiority complex.

3. Allow your child to lose his temper

If a child throws a tantrum at home, the parents will immediately adopt "eagle-style" education and restrain the child. This is not conducive to the child's venting of his inner dissatisfaction. Once it cannot be vented correctly, it will be hidden in his heart. Over time, the child will not be able to vent his dissatisfaction, and all of it will be depressed in his heart, resulting in an introverted personality.

4. Let your child watch a film or TV show about "strength" or "bravery", or read a book about it.

Let children find idols or their own spiritual coordinates from such films, TV shows or books. Once children take a brave and strong character as a role model, their behavior will become more and more like their idols. This is undoubtedly a good thing for alleviating children's cowardly character.

5. You can enroll your child in some martial arts classes so that he or she can interact with children of the same age.

Chinese martial arts is not only a form of physical training, but also focuses on the training of inner character. Enroll your child in a martial arts or taekwondo interest class, let him or her interact more with children in Tongling, increase his or her social circle, let him or her learn the "nindominance" of martial arts, and experience the joy of exercising with friends.