What to do if your child refuses to go to school

Going to school is the most important activity for children and it is a necessary way to learn knowledge. Therefore, parents are very concerned about their children's schooling. However, since learning knowledge in school requires using the brain, many children who cannot calm down find it difficult to concentrate on their studies and gradually develop an aversion to learning. Let's take a look at what to do if your child refuses to go to school? I hope everyone can understand it.

First, it is not about thinking of a good method, but finding a good school first, the right school. If the school’s teaching is not good and the children are not interested, any good method will be useless. First of all, we need to correct the root of the problem. Many parents like to put their children in nearby kindergartens or primary schools. This is human nature, but they have never considered the teaching quality of this school and the impact it will have on their children. This is also why some children can memorize English words and Tang poems at the age of 3 or 4. The other children couldn't even speak coherently. A good school, the right school is the key to your son’s success and your daughter’s success.

Second, what if there is a school but the child still doesn’t want to go to school? This is normal. What should I do if the child is shy and doesn’t want to go out after one or two days? Let me tell you a story, you can refer to it: There was a couple, the wife was pregnant, and the husband was working alone. The first thing he did with his monthly salary was to buy a book. What book? - Preschool education. Give it to my wife, and check on her when she's okay. The child was born safely and soon reached school age.

The third method is also to coax, but of course it is not pure coaxing. You have to do what you say. I believe everyone has heard of the story of Mencius killing a pig to raise a son. Be sure to do what you promised to your child so that he will be interested in continuing. If you don't keep your promise, it will be counterproductive. If you say you can't do it every time, then when your child doesn't want to go to school, no matter how you coax him, it will be useless. So make sure you do what you say.

The fourth method is communication. Of course it’s not about reasoning. Some people say that reasoning with children will cause them to have such and such consequences in the future if they don’t study hard when they are young.

The fifth way is to play more games with your children. Children are children, and playing is their nature. You cannot force them to study. It would be best if both parties reached an agreement that he goes to school to study, and accompanies her to play and go wherever she wants.