This is very useful for rebellious children

Having a child is not as easy as people think. A child’s growth requires not only the care of his or her parents, but also their concern and guidance. When children are young, you should teach them to protect themselves and have correct values. When children enter primary school, you should pay attention to their homework. Later, when children enter adolescence, you should pay attention to their psychology. Most children will be rebellious during adolescence.

I miss your smile, I miss your beauty, I miss your cute look and the smile on your face! "Since the baby entered the rebellious period, mothers can no longer see the obedient and well-behaved baby before? Throwing tantrums, crying and making a fuss, sulking and going against mothers, are these heart-wrenching scenes happening every day? Mothers, pay attention. To help children successfully get through the rebellious period, mothers need to pay attention to their children's emotional changes at all times and guide their children's emotions. This will help the baby's physical and mental health.

1. Run with your children. Running indoors and outdoors can consume physical energy and help children vent negative emotions. This is a good choice for children who like to break things and are active.

2. Shout out your anger. For children who like to make a lot of noise, mothers can provide them with a place to vent and let them shout as much as they want. But be careful not to let your child develop the habit of shouting when he is unhappy.

3. Tear the paper hard. Let hyperactive children tear up paper and vent their anger on waste paper, newspapers, and toilet paper.

4. Make faces at your child. When the atmosphere is tense, parents may want to make a face to adjust their children's emotions.

5. Roll around as you like. Let your crying and noisy child roll around on the floor of the room or on the lawn. This can help relieve the child's stressed emotions.

6. Divert your child’s attention. When your child is emotionally agitated, don't let him or her dwell on the issue. Tell him or her a story, listen to a song, or play with toys to help him or her forget about the issue temporarily.

7. Allow your children to talk freely. Set aside some time every week to let your children talk about the unpleasant things that happened that week. During this process, parents should not interrupt, but only use body language to nod or hug their children.

8 When facing the baby's resistance, parents cannot simply oppose and stop it. Only by correctly understanding the reasons behind the baby's resistance can they "prescribe the right medicine". You need to know that whether the parents' handling method is correct will directly affect the baby's growth, so when facing a "rebellious" baby, you also need to "think twice before acting."

9. Understand your baby and respect your baby. When your baby starts to like saying "no" to his parents, it is the first step for them to establish themselves and self-esteem. The purpose of the baby doing this is nothing more than to demand equal status with adults. At this time, parents should not easily interfere with the baby's actions. They should consult the child's opinions in an equal manner and leave room for children to choose. Doing this will make the baby feel that you respect him and protect his self-esteem, and he will not easily say the opposite to you.