What is the importance of parent-child communication?

Nowadays, more and more people pay attention to children's education and communication with their children. Everyone knows that frequent communication between parents and children can not only understand children's psychological problems as they grow up, but also guide children in a timely manner, which is of great benefit to children's physical and mental development. Therefore, parents must pay more attention to observing their children, which highlights the importance of parent-child communication in life.

Without a good parent-child relationship, all the teachings of parents to their children will be nonsense in their ears. Parents should communicate with their children instead of arguing with them or even beating them. There is a saying that parents are their children's first teachers and are very important to their children's development throughout their lives. Therefore, communication between parents and children is crucial. A good relationship is the key to all educational methods implemented by parents.

A good relationship can open a child's closed ears and hearts. There is an old Chinese saying that goes "Love your teacher and learn what he teaches." It means that if you like your teacher, you will study what he teaches seriously. In fact, this also applies to parents. Help your children become learning winners and create a third state in which they enjoy a sense of accomplishment, creativity and satisfaction. Then they will feel happy and motivated and will naturally learn voluntarily and automatically. Parents often say in distress: "I told my child to do homework and play when he got home, but he didn't listen at all." "I told him not to watch TV and play games all day long, but he didn't seem to hear at all." Why can't children hear or listen to their parents? Although this has a lot to do with the child's personality and the parenting method of the parents, there is another very important reason, that is, the disharmonious parent-child relationship closes the child's ears and heart. His ears and heart are no longer open to you, and he may even deliberately go against you. A good relationship is like a golden key that can open people's closed ears and make the communication of the heart smoother.

A good relationship allows parents to have a positive influence on their children. Parents especially hope that their children are obedient, because they believe that what they say is for the good of their children. Putting aside the sometimes wrong education of parents, even those educational methods that are beneficial and good for children need to be backed by a good relationship to truly enter the hearts of children. Only in this way can parents have a persuasive and positive influence on their children. Children care very much about whether their parents are fully committed to their growth. Although some parents are with their children all year round, they may not communicate often. Most parents use being busy as an excuse to neglect parent-child education. Parents' parent-child education should be ahead of their children's physical and psychological development, so parents should devote themselves to their children's education, keep learning, and improve their parenting skills in order to win their children's respect and love. The key to a parent's influence on their children does not lie in your education level, knowledge and social status, but in whether you have a good parent-child relationship with your child, that is, a loving relationship.

Appreciation education for children is essential. Give more praise and less criticism. Appropriate praise is the stimulant and lubricant for communication between parents and children. Parents' constant understanding, appreciation, praise and encouragement of their children will enhance their children's self-esteem and self-confidence. Remember: praise and encouragement help children progress, while criticism and complaints make them fall behind. When correcting a child's key shortcomings, you must be mature in your considerations and choose the best place and time. Parents should keep in mind the following: the prerequisite for educating children is to understand them. Appreciation leads to success, complaining leads to failure.

How to educate your children well and how to communicate with your children smoothly are issues that every family and every parent is keenly concerned about, and this is also a very difficult problem in today's social environment. When parents communicate with their children, they first need to adjust their own mentality and should suggest to themselves: I have such a lovely child, we will grow up together, we will face many problems together, and we will live a happier and more fun life than others. This will lay a good foundation for effective communication with your children. Some parents are impatient and don't like to communicate with their children, which leads to the situation where the children talk back to their parents. This shows the importance of the word "communication".

First of all, we should always think back to our childhood and don’t put on a high posture. We have all been through that stage. We should think back to the mistakes we made. If they happen to our children, we can only teach them because we have personal experience and it will be more convincing. There is no need to consult any professors or experts, because their theories are also obtained through communication with some children and parents, but they are expressed in systematic language. But if we speak that awkward language, will the children be able to understand us? So the second point is to let children express what is in their hearts. Once the words are spoken, the blockages or confusion in their hearts will be cleared. As parents, we always use the excuse of being busy with work and having heavy burdens as an excuse to refuse to enter our children's world, or we educate our children with our own subjective consciousness and money-mindedness. Then the children will definitely become "a red rose will be redder if they are around red flowers, and a black rose will be blacker if they are around black flowers." At the same time, they will spoil their children and will not allow them to be beaten or scolded. Absolutely wrong. The correct persuasion method coupled with severe and appropriate punishment measures is the guarantee for children to form good habits. Don't be afraid that your child will resent you. At his age, he can be said to be outspoken. If you can help him form a good perception, he will be grateful to you in the long run.

The most important thing for children is communication. Without communication, it is impossible to teach children well. A child's life is full of hope, but this burden is cultivated by the parents. It is because of communication that a child's life can be cultivated well.