Six things you shouldn’t say to your baby? Parents, please remember this.

Nowadays, many parents speak to their children casually and say whatever they think to their children. This is very wrong. Some words may seem insignificant to adults, but may hurt the young hearts of children. For example, don't say the following words to your baby in the future.

1. “You have no future!”

Once, I cried at home because I encountered difficulties. My father had always raised me as a boy, hoping that I would be successful in life. My crying upset him so much that he said to me, "A person who can achieve great things will not cry at every turn! You have no future!" These words made me sad for several years, and my heart aches whenever I think of them.

2. "Big fool!"

When I was a child, I was taller than other children of the same age. Whenever others talked about me, my mother would say, "You are a big fool." This sentence always makes me feel that being tall is a very inferior thing.

3. “You are so ignorant.”

When I was a child, what I couldn’t stand most from my parents was: “You are so ignorant!” But at that time, I could already do housework and cook meals after school every day. Why did they still say that to me? Is it just because I didn't read books because I was helping my parents with the housework?

3. "Can you do it? I think xx is more suitable."

I remember when I was a child I wanted to sign up for a competition. I took it very seriously, but when I told my mother about it she said, “Can you do this? I think so-and-so (my child) is more suitable.” I still remember the hurt feeling I had at that time. I don't think I would say something similar to my son, I would tell him "Mom is proud of you!"

4. "If you cry again, Grandma Wolf will take you away!"

When I was a child, my parents both worked night shifts. One night I woke up and found that I was the only one in the bed. I thought they didn’t want me anymore and I couldn’t help crying. As a result, my grandparents and uncle who lived next door woke me up in bed and scared me, saying, "If you cry again, Grandma Wolf will take you away!" When they said that, I cried even harder. I cried until I was tired and fell asleep hugging the quilt. Although it was a small thing, I remember it very clearly.

5. "If you don't obey me, I won't want you anymore!"

I remember one time at the zoo, my parents said it was time to leave, but I really didn’t want to let them go. My mom suddenly said to me, “If you don’t listen to me, I won’t want you anymore!” It was almost dark, and the zoo was grey. My mom’s words scared me and made me cry. That scene has remained in my memory.

6. “You definitely can’t!”

This is something my mother often said to me when I was a child. Whenever I want to participate in an important competition or performance, my mother would say this. Although her purpose was to make me not be too proud, this often made me lose confidence in myself.