Children who grow up to be successful have these characteristics

The hardest thing to change in a person's life is his or her character. As our ancestors said: It is easy to change the country but difficult to change one's nature! People have their own temperament and personality. Some are impatient, some are slow, some are quiet, some are talkative, and some are mysophobic. Various; personality is determined by heredity, environment, education, and personal experience.

So for children: you can tell how a child will grow up when he is three, and you can tell how a child will be when he is seven! If your children have these characteristics, they are likely to have a great future!

1. Children with strong self-control

Whether it's doing homework, reading, playing, or sleeping, I can do it on time! Of course, children’s self-control is definitely not as good as that of adults. At this time, parents should guide their children to plan their time and cultivate their interests. If children are interested, they will do it themselves without supervision.

2. Be brave to express yourself

Children dare to communicate with strangers and are willing to show themselves, such as singing and dancing. This is a sign of a child's confidence. A child who lacks confidence cannot gain a foothold in this impetuous society. Parents usually encourage their children and trust them. If parents do not trust their children, where will their children get the confidence?

3. Have your own ideas and think independently

When encountering problems or issues, parents can first ask their children what they think instead of solving them for them. Children should be taught to think independently from an early age so that they can stand on their own when they grow up!

4. Flexible mind and strong hands-on ability

The "flexible mind" here does not mean that the child's academic performance should be very good, but that he has many methods. For example, if an electronic toy he bought is broken, the child likes to take it apart! Parents should guide and educate him on how to repair the toy instead of scolding him directly! How much does a toy cost? This is also an investment!

5. Ability to read quietly

"A rich family does not need to buy good farmland, as there are thousands of bushels of grain in books; a comfortable home does not need to build a high hall, as there is a golden house in books; do not be sad that no one accompanies you when you go out, as there are many carriages and horses in books; do not be sad that there is no good matchmaker for you to marry, as there are beautiful women in books; if a man wants to fulfill his life's ambition, he should study the Six Classics diligently in front of the window." - Zhao Heng

A person who can calm down and read can calm down and reflect on himself. Moreover, the knowledge in the book is also what children need to extract; parents can read picture books with their children, tell stories, etc., to make children fall in love with reading.

Every child is unique. Parents should not overprotect their children or blindly plan their future for them. Instead, they should guide them onto the most appropriate path after understanding their personalities and abilities.