What are the reasons why children are often angry?

Many parents face this problem: their children lose their temper for no reason, leaving them helpless. Only by knowing the reasons why children are angry can parents guide them correctly. Some parents are too indulgent to their children. If their needs are not met, they will cry and make a fuss, which is very annoying. A short period of isolation can help both sides calm down. It is much more effective to talk more about reason than to fight violence with violence. Children who want to be respected, understood and cared for will also lose their temper with their parents. Parents who are busy with work should remember to spend more time with their children, comfort them patiently, and never scold or beat them, otherwise it will only encourage their children's temper.

Children who are prone to temper tantrums are generally more willful and often have unreasonable demands. When their demands are not met or when they are frustrated, they will lose their temper, yelling, crying, rolling on the ground, tearing their clothes and hair, and even banging their heads against the wall or threatening their parents with death. Persuasion is often ineffective at this time, and the situation will only calm down after a long period of time, only when the demands are met or ignored.

This is usually a mistake that younger babies tend to make. There may be many reasons, such as: the baby doesn’t like brushing his teeth, so every time he brushes his teeth, he will deliberately make trouble or make noise; the baby won’t let his parents leave, mom and dad are in a hurry to go to work, but he won’t let them; when he goes to the store, he must buy the same toys as the ones at home, and will make a big fuss if he doesn’t buy them, etc.

Parents’ words and actions can affect their children’s lives. Parents who are prone to temper tantrums always have a child who is prone to temper tantrums. In order to cultivate good character in children, parents must set a good example through words and deeds and create a good family atmosphere which will help the physical and mental development of children. Spoiling is not good, and the habit of being peremptory should be changed.