What to do if your child is naughty and disobedient

In our lives, there are many children who are particularly naughty. Parents are very worried about their children's naughtiness. After all, the children are relatively young, and parents cannot bear to be too harsh on their children's education. And often the more indulgent the parents are, the more disobedient the children will be. Therefore, we must master the methods of educating children. So what should we do if children are naughty and disobedient?

How should we communicate and teach children who like to talk back, contradict, lose their temper and are too naughty? Do parents feel helpless when their children are disobedient? Experts suggest that if children are disobedient, parents should find out the reasons and think about whether it is caused by themselves, and adjust the way of communication with their children so that they can teach their children well through good interaction.

The prerequisite for children to be obedient: understand the meaning of their parents' words

For preschool children to be obedient, they must understand what their parents say and the meaning of their words. Some parents will use sarcastic words when disciplining their children.

At what age can children understand what their parents say? The so-called understanding does not only include language, but also facial expressions, intonation, etc. Generally, children aged 9 to 10 months already know how to read people's expressions, and some even know how to do it at six or seven months old. At this stage, the child may not understand much words, but can already read the parents' expressions to interact and know whether their parents are happy or angry. Parent-child interaction often starts at this time. Even if the child can understand simple words and language, the brain's neural comprehension ability is not yet good, so time is needed to react or understand. This is also something parents should understand first.

Children at different stages need to be guided in different ways

As children grow up, there will be some changes. For example, when you call him, he will walk over obediently holding on to the wall, but one day he cannot be called. Parents cannot conclude that the child is disobedient. In fact, children at different stages care about different things, so children of different ages need to be taught in different ways.

What situations are most unbearable for parents?

1. Disobedient and talk back

2 Learn to speak like your parents, even catch grammatical errors

3. Use the rules set by your parents to fight back

Find out why your child is disobedient

1. The regulations are too strict

2. Always use commands, intimidation, and threats to children