What should I do if my child has a bad temper?

Everyone knows that impatience is a very bad character. Whether in daily life, in relationships or in career, if a person is very impatient, it is easy to make mistakes, and the things done are likely to make people around him uncomfortable. Therefore, impatience has a great impact. If parents find that their children have an impatient temper, they must find ways to help their children improve. How to help children specifically requires skills. Parents may wish to take the following measures.

What should I do if my child has a bad temper?

1. Discipline is not punishment

There are many reasons why children make mistakes and act naughty. The most important thing is to understand why your child makes mistakes. Children may make mistakes out of childishness, jealousy, panic, fatigue, stress, or frustration. You should spend more time playing with your children, reading books with them, and building a good parent-child relationship. A deep understanding of a child's mind helps in choosing appropriate discipline methods. Anticipating your child's potential naughty behavior can help you prescribe the right treatment. For example, if you are afraid that your child will have a tantrum in the supermarket, it is best to explain your shopping plan and your expected behavior to him before going out.

2. Cold treatment is important

Don’t think that children are only concerned with throwing tantrums; they are actually secretly observing reactions. When encountering such a situation, we must be able to "not yield in the face of might and power." Ignore him and make it clear to your child that you have seen through his tricks and that they won't work. In order to make the cold treatment effective, we must do a good job of ideological work among the older generation in advance and never let a "Cheng Yaojin" show up halfway. In addition, parents should remind themselves not to be infected by their children's bad temper. If the child does not listen to advice, tell yourself that people are like this when they are angry. Give him some time to cool down.

3. Food can adjust your personality

What your children eat determines not only how much they weigh, but also how well they feel and behave. For these children, parents should pay special attention to whether they are lacking in foods rich in calcium and magnesium. Since calcium helps the conduction of nerve stimulation, a lack of calcium will prevent children's nerves from relaxing, causing mental tension and bad temper. Likewise, a lack of magnesium can interfere with nerve activity and cause irritability and nervousness. Parents can add milk, soy products, kelp, dried fish, loach, bananas, apples, nuts and dark green leafy vegetables to the diet.

4. Distract Your Attention

Many children like to act unreasonably, wanting to attract adults' attention or get certain rewards. There are many reasons for this. For example, some children do not like to brush their teeth, so every time they brush their teeth, they will deliberately make trouble or make noise; some children do not let their parents leave, and even if their parents are in a hurry to go to work, they just don’t let them wait. When dealing with young children, the approach of reasoning as taught in the books is definitely not feasible. Children care more about their own feelings, and if you force them to submit with a tough attitude, both adults and children will be very angry. A better way is to find ways to divert his attention, giving him a sense of freshness without violating the parents' principles.

5. Find someone with prestige to calm the situation

Who do children usually pick on most often? He must be the one who loves him the most. In the minds of children, people who take care of them, like mothers and grandmothers, are soft persimmons. There will be no serious consequences even if they lose their temper, so they do whatever they want. When encountering this situation, we need to seek help from authority figures, such as grandfather or father. Often, after just a few words, the child will be obedient.