How to educate children to curse

Parents are the first and best teachers of their children. If a child swears, parents should first examine whether they are not careful when speaking and whether they swear. Therefore, parents should first set an example. What kind of parents you are, what kind of children you will have. Children are likely to learn what their parents do. After all, children are at an age when they have stronger imitation abilities.

It is understood that children who like to swear and use foul language have several misconceptions: one believes that swearing is a sign of ability, one believes that they will suffer a loss if they do not fight back when being scolded by others, and another believes that everyone uses foul language, so swearing is nothing big. In addition to explaining the principles clearly, parents should give their children positive education in moral cultivation and civility, so that they understand that respecting others is a human virtue.

After solving the child’s cognitive problems, parents must also create conditions for the child to correct his or her mistakes.

First of all, parents should require themselves and family members to speak in a civilized manner and not to swear, so as to set an example for their children. Parents should prevent their children from associating with people who like to swear. Parents should also cooperate with teachers to educate their children not to swear. If children make progress, they should be encouraged in time. When it comes to children’s stubborn and willful behavior, we cannot just express our dissatisfaction with them, but we must give them the opportunity to express themselves and explain.

Let him clearly explain the reasons why he insists on this matter, so as to prevent parents from wrongly accusing their children. If he can provide a reasonable explanation for this seemingly unreasonable request, parents should not only respect their opinions, but also work with their children to help them meet their needs. This is a good communication opportunity between parents and children. If the child feels that you trust him, he will trust you too. In this way, the child will not lie for a mistake. However, if parents do not give their children the opportunity to explain for a long time, and just treat their children's mistakes roughly, slowly the children will stop communicating with you.

So many parents are troubled, why don’t their children like to talk? This is because you unconsciously deprive them of the right to speak and do not respect them. For example, when a child is crying, parents can quietly observe and ignore the child. When the child sees that no one takes him/her seriously, he/she will give up this way of expression over time.

When your child loses his temper and becomes unreasonable, give him the cold shoulder and deal with it reasonably. Take the child to a quiet place and let him/her calm down; and let the child bear the corresponding consequences. For example, if a child doesn’t get the fruit he is supposed to eat or the toy he is supposed to have because of crying, tell him that these are directly related to his temper and unreasonable crying. In this way, children will realize the consequences of this behavior and will consciously control it. No matter what you do, you must make sure your child eventually understands the negative impact this behavior has on everyone and the consequences he will have to bear. Parents should let their children apologize to the other party through ideological education, and never discipline their children by beating or scolding. Using uncivilized behavior to stop or oppose uncivilized behavior will not achieve good educational results.