What to do if your child is afraid of ghosts

Ghosts are a kind of feudal superstition, but for children, they have less contact with this world, so they tend to be more inclined to believe that ghosts exist. Therefore, most children are afraid of ghosts, and this is also an important period for parents to educate their children. Because if parents explain whether ghosts really exist in this world, it will have a significant impact on the formation of their children's future values. So if children are afraid of ghosts, what solutions should parents recommend?

What to do if your child says he is afraid of ghosts

Parents need to cooperate in this issue. Parents are the most trustworthy people for children, so when children like to ask their parents: "Are there ghosts in this world? Have you seen them?", many parents who do not understand education will say that they have seen them and say how scary they are. This causes children to believe it without a doubt and have psychological barriers, so they are afraid even if they have never seen it. In fact, there are many things that can be explained by science. For example, "ghost fire" is a good example, which is caused by phosphorus. So, never tell your children that there are ghosts. Say firmly that there are no ghosts and teach them "Don't do anything wrong in your life and don't be startled by someone knocking on the door in the middle of the night." And set a good example yourself and don't take him to see horror movies or anything like that.

What to do if your child is timid

1. Cultivate an optimistic attitude. One of the psychological roots of children's timidity and fear of things is pessimism. Optimistic people regard difficulties as normal, and think that difficulties are the result of your strength and weakness, and they are full of confidence, determination and perseverance to overcome difficulties; pessimistic people artificially exaggerate difficulties and surrender before the battle. Therefore, we should often encourage children, let them look at problems from a favorable perspective, make more progress, see their own achievements, so that they have confidence in themselves and develop an optimistic attitude.

2. Start with small things. Lack of perseverance is another psychological root of children's timidity. People with low perseverance will tend to retreat when their children find difficulties difficult to overcome. But accumulating victories in overcoming small difficulties can gradually cultivate people's perseverance in overcoming big difficulties. Therefore, children should be asked to start with small things, especially those small things that they are most likely to ignore and which are most likely to expose their willpower weaknesses, to cultivate perseverance. For example, get up on time every day, write a diary, do morning exercises, etc., do not be careless under any circumstances, persevere, and do not make excuses. Over time, you can gradually develop strong perseverance.

3. Encourage interaction with others. Children who are timid and fearful are often introverted and unsociable. As parents, we should create more opportunities to encourage children to actively interact with others and gain emotional support from their peers. For example, let the child take the initiative to greet others, invite friends to come over to play, introduce the child to guests and play with them, etc., to cultivate the child's boldness.

4. Avoid criticism or sarcasm. Timid and fearful children have strong self-esteem. Parents must not criticize or ridicule them for their shortcomings, as this will only deepen the impact of the children's negative emotions. Parents should give their children more encouraging and praising words and looks to enhance their self-confidence and reduce psychological pressure.

Children do not have a mature ability to understand the world and perceive things, so they will inevitably panic when they encounter unknown things. At this time, parents should provide scientific guidance and comfort, and not scold or undermine their children's self-esteem. Every child needs encouragement. Only in this way can we establish a healthy mentality and strong self-confidence.