What to do if your child always loses temper?

It is inevitable that children will lose their temper during their growth process, but if they always lose their temper, it means that the parents' education has failed. At this time, parents need to pay great attention to this, as it will not only affect the child's personality formation, but will also be very detrimental to the child's performance in future work and life. Educating children requires skills, and parents should learn more about this aspect.

Calmly take your child to another quiet place and tell him he can come back when he stops crying. When he comes back, talk to him about what happened and how you can avoid this situation. In case the child cries again, the isolation policy will still be adopted.

If your child starts crying or making a fuss in the store, just calmly take him out or put him in the car. After he stops crying, continue doing what you were doing. Don't let your child think that a tantrum can stop you from shopping.

Don't argue with him when he loses his temper, as he won't listen. Wait until the incident is over and he is in a good mood, then you can talk to him. This will be more effective.

If my child loses his temper, I will calmly tell him that I am not changing my mind, and I will leave the room and stay in a nearby place until the child calms down on his own. If the child can’t calm down on their own, I go in and try to speak to how the child is feeling. If all else fails, I'll try telling the kids jokes. Sometimes, I would just lie down on the floor and say, "I want a BMW! I want it now!" Usually my daughter would look at me in surprise and say, "Mom!" - and then the little one would forget that she had a temper tantrum.

I think it’s okay to stay calm when your child is having a tantrum, but it’s important to stand your ground. You have to be persistent and willing to follow the discipline you create. Never say something you don't actually mean to do, such as "If you don't get up, I'm going to leave you here and go home by myself."

When your child loses his temper, you must not fight violence with violence. Not only will this not solve the problem, but it will aggravate the child's rebellious psychology. You must learn scientific methods and approaches. In addition, parents are the best teachers for their children. Their words and deeds often subtly influence their children's future, so fundamentally, parents must set a good example themselves.