How to change a child’s bad temper?

Nowadays, many families have only one child, and the child receives a lot of attention. Many parents do not know how to educate their children and spoil their children blindly, which leads to the children becoming spoiled and having a bad temper. They get angry and throw things at the slightest provocation, and in serious cases, they may even beat and scold their parents. So, how can we change children's bad temper? This is an issue that many parents are concerned about.

1. Care and love your children in the right way

It is understandable that parents love their children, but their care and love should be aimed at the normal development of their children. Caring for children should not be limited to material enjoyment, but should pay attention to changes in children's mentality and educate children with correct concepts. Parents should create opportunities for their children to interact with their peers, improve their social skills, and thus develop good character. Parents should also let their children get in touch with society, participate in labor, break the closed door of the family, let children understand that things are not as simple as they think, and learn to consider problems from multiple angles.

2. Transfer method

When a child throws a tantrum, we should use the surrounding environment to try to divert the child's attention, let the child be attracted by some new things, and make the child give up unreasonable demands.

3. Seize every opportunity to educate your children

Parents should often tell their children: Many people’s wishes are impossible to achieve, and sometimes we must learn to control our desires. When a child gives up his unreasonable demands, parents should give him praise and encouragement in a timely manner to make him feel happy and encourage him to take more positive actions.

4. Reward and Punishment Correction

When a child is stubborn and throws a tantrum, parents should immediately point out his mistakes, become colder in their attitude toward him, and ignore him until the child "softens" and then reason with him. When the child makes progress, for example, the child used to lose his temper over the same thing but now he doesn't lose his temper anymore or his temper has lessened, parents should give timely praise and encouragement, hoping that the child can persist. Over time, the child's correct behavior will be consolidated and the wrong behavior will gradually be eliminated.

After reading the above content, I believe that parents will definitely gain something. As parents, they must master certain educational methods and have a principle for dealing with children's mistakes. When children lose their temper, they must persist and not compromise with their children. Do not let children develop the idea that they can achieve their goals by losing their temper. They must learn to restrain themselves.