7 Wrong Words and Actions of Parents Affect Your Baby's Life

Bad Habit 1

You are busy and stressed at work. When you get home and see your 4-year-old daughter making noises at inappropriate times, you can’t help but yell, “Why are you always crying? Stop crying, you are such an annoyance!”

Reminder: A child who respects himself and others must first have been respected by adults. If we do not give children this kind of respect and are rude to them, they will take it for granted that others should do what I say and will find it difficult to consider issues from the perspective of others.

Bad Habit 2
After being married for many years, you and your lover often quarrel in front of your daughter over trivial matters such as "why buy chickens instead of ducks", and then make up afterwards.
Reminder: Our hostility and quarrels set a bad example for aggressive behavior for our children. Our expressions, postures, tones and words when we quarrel are all seen and remembered by the children. Later, when they are playing, they will scold their dolls in a tender voice, beat them severely, or use swear words to other children.
Bad Habit 3
You work hard and manage the household frugally. You are reluctant to buy new clothes for yourself, but you are very generous to your son. If he wants Ultraman or Superman, you will give him the same and won't ask him to save. Think about it: Isn't the one-child society just for the sake of one child?
Reminder: Our kind of "love" will make children only understand receiving but not giving. How can children understand the hard work of making money?
Bad Habit 4
Every day when you get home from get off work, you always habitually ask your daughter, "How was your day in kindergarten today?" While asking, you are busy cooking, tidying the room, or reading the newspaper.
Reminder: Our behavior seems to be telling the child: "I don't care about your answer. What I really care about now is whether I can prepare dinner quickly, tidy up the room, or finish reading today's newspaper." This approach can only get a surprising and angry answer from the child: "Nothing", "So-so", or "It's okay". So, children learn from us to be perfunctory to others.
Bad Habit 5
Your son quarrels with other children over a toy, so you punish him by not allowing him to play with the toy for a week. A few days later, you realize that you may have punished your child too harshly, but you think, "Parents should be consistent in what they say and what they do," so you convince yourself and don't want to take back your words.
Reminder: If we make a mistake and refuse to admit it, our children will continue to make the same mistake.
Bad Habit 6
The TV at home is broken, so you ask your son's uncle to help fix it. When the agreed time came, my uncle called and said he couldn't come because of an emergency. You hang up the phone and complain to your children and wife: "Your uncle is so untrustworthy! I will never ask him for help again."
Reminder: Blame and complaining are not only useless, but also set a bad example for children: when faced with disappointment, we do not actively try to find ways to solve the problem, but just blame and complain about others.
Bad Habit 7
After dinner, your daughter asks you to tell her a story, but you are always busy with other things: tidying up the room; replying to emails or checking some messages; just when you are about to sit down to tell her a story, you suddenly have something else to deal with.
Reminder: Our behavior makes children understand a "truth": there is only work and no entertainment in life, only housework and no games in the family, and in order to survive and live in this society, you must work endlessly 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.