What to do if a three-year-old child is disobedient

If a three-year-old child is disobedient, parents need to learn to educate their children and not be too indulgent or spoiled. If they are too indulgent, they will become worse. Parents must learn to communicate more with their children so that they can develop better habits. Parents should not beat or scold them too directly, as this will cause psychological trauma to the children and eventually make them rebellious.

1. Spend half an hour every day communicating with your children.

2. Use civilized language with your children at home, such as "good morning, please, thank you, good night", etc.

3. Let children develop good hygiene habits.

4. Listen to your children’s voices more! - Listen with patience, love and happiness. The heart has eyes!

5. Don’t always expose your child’s scars just to remind him or her of something.

6. Point out your child’s mistakes seriously!

7. Don’t always be serious with your children. Laugh with them more often: because laughter can make children love life more; guide children to look at things positively, easily and happily.

8. When telling stories to children, be patient and the stories should have certain educational significance.

9. Don’t impose your unfulfilled ideals on your children and expect them to achieve them.

10. Care for your children, but give them appropriate punishment when appropriate. Don’t protect your children.

11. Education does not necessarily mean just reasoning. Sometimes it is appropriate to take some tough measures.

12. Based on your child’s performance, think about at least one question about your child’s growth every day.

13. It is very beneficial to provide art education for young children, cultivate their elegant aesthetic taste, pay attention to guiding and enriching their perceptual knowledge, and deepen their emotional experience in nature.

14. For young children, do not let them live with their parents for a long time. Grandparents are closer than their grandparents, which is not conducive to their education. Maybe there is no scientific reason, but it is definitely applicable.

15. Pay attention to cultivating children’s kindness. The ancients said: Do not do evil for the sake of small gains, and do not refrain from doing good for the sake of small gains.

16. Teach your children to smile, to face everything in life with a smile, and to face life with a smile.

17. Don’t make random promises to your children, and do everything you can to fulfill the promises you made.

18. Always think from the perspective of your child! Parents should always think from the perspective of their children about what they do and think. If I were the child, what would I do?

19. Give children a certain amount of space and freedom, as well as a certain amount of pressure and responsibility!

20. Explain to the child that he is already very cute and that he does not need to show off himself.

21. Never say that your child is worse than other children.

23. Keep looking for things worthy of praise in what your child does.

24. Don’t scare children. So as to avoid making children overly timid and fearful.

25. Do not criticize or ridicule children in public, so as to avoid causing psychological deformity, loss of self-confidence, etc.

26. Don’t be too strict with your children. This is to prevent children from being afraid or shy to express their own opinions and developing a character that appears kind but is actually evil.

27. Don’t praise your children too much. So as to prevent children from developing bad habits of seeking fame and reputation.

29. Let children establish correct idols in their minds.