How to change a child who is introverted and doesn’t like to talk?

The child is introverted and doesn't like to talk, which has an important relationship with genetics. In addition, if parents can provide good acquired education, they can generally cultivate a cheerful personality in their children. Education is a relatively big problem. As a parent, we must first strengthen our own learning, create a harmonious and pleasant family atmosphere, and promote communication and exchanges between children and others.

1. Create a harmonious atmosphere

First of all, parents should create a warm family environment. Children in such an environment will feel very safe and will be more willing to communicate with their parents, which will help them cultivate a cheerful personality.

2. Spend more time with people of your own age

Compared to their parents, children may have more to talk about with their peers, so you can create more opportunities for your children to interact with children of the same age. For example, invite children to your home and let your child be the host for once. They will be happy to greet their friends. This can gradually enhance your child's self-confidence and make his personality become cheerful.

3. Protect children’s self-esteem

Although children are young, they have strong self-esteem. Communicate more with your children, encourage them to speak, and never physically punish or verbally attack them. This will help shape your child's lively personality.

4. Take the initiative to communicate with your children

Introverted children rarely speak on their own initiative, so parents should take the initiative to communicate with their children. This way they can get deep into their children's hearts and correctly guide them to open their hearts. In this way, children will gradually be willing to communicate and play with other children.

5. Let children practice independence

If your child is introverted and doesn't like to communicate with the outside world, a better way to deal with it is to let the child do something independently, such as going to the supermarket to buy a bottle of soy sauce, or borrowing something from a neighbor, etc. These exercises will make children more independent and dare to explore things they like.

Mothers should also encourage their children to express their thoughts, feelings, and wishes boldly over a long period of time. At the same time, boys should be provided with opportunities to communicate independently as much as possible, so that they can practice expressing themselves and experience the joy of communication. Of course, when children perform well, they should be praised and encouraged in a timely manner, and given appropriate guidance to promote the cultivation of children's perfect character.