Should children be spanked if they don't listen?

Many parents have their own opinions on whether children should be beaten if they are disobedient. In fact, it is not recommended to educate children through corporal punishment or beatings and scolding, because this will only encourage their rebellious psychology and will be more detrimental to the baby's education.

1 I believe that no mother is willing to beat her child , but sometimes when the child makes a mistake and repeated persuasion is useless, many mothers beat the child. In fact, I think that before beating the child, you should tell the child where he/she is wrong, and corporal punishment is not necessary.

2. Don’t hit introverted children. Let them say what they did wrong before educating them. If you hit them without asking or explaining, they will be afraid to touch, do or say anything. Introverted children will develop a self-abased and cowardly personality in their future life.

3 Of course, there is also a kind of child who knowingly commits a crime . He knows it is wrong but refuses to change despite repeated teachings, which makes his mother unbearable. In fact, the mother should calm down and think about why the child is like this.

If you do this, maybe the child does not know how to express his love for his mother and just uses this action to attract his mother, even if he is scolded. If this is the case, the mother should pay more attention to the child.

4. People have different IQs and different concentrations. Some mothers verbally abuse their children because of their poor academic performance, which is actually more serious than beating. Parents should find out the reasons why their children are poor at studying. If the child does work hard but still does poorly at studying, parents should communicate with the teacher and find a suitable study plan for the child.

5. Children are cute when adults are free . If adults are angry or busy, children's cute actions will be ignored by adults, and they will yell at them instead. In fact, if parents really hit their children in anger, they must apologize to the children and explain clearly afterwards and tell them that their mother loves them.