What should I do if my child doesn’t fight back when being beaten?

In life, it is very common for children to fight. Parents and teachers must look at this issue objectively. The child is a bit cowardly and dare not fight back when being beaten by other children. Parents will feel particularly distressed when encountering this problem. At this time, do not encourage children to fight. If you think your child is cowardly, you can take some measures to encourage your child to be brave.

What should I do if my child doesn’t fight back when being beaten?

Wen's mother has encountered some children like this. Some of them were too well protected at home and had no idea how to deal with such situations. There are also some children, like the parents who raised this question, who are usually taught not to hit others. So when they were beaten, they just endured it silently. However, after proper guidance, when the child masters the rules of the game, this situation will not occur again.

As a parent, when you see your child being bullied, you will definitely feel angry. However, only the child himself can judge what kind of reaction he will make at that moment. This reaction is a comprehensive reaction based on instinct, personality, cognitive ability, experience, expression ability, self-control, etc. When children do not have the ability, it does not do any good for children if parents force them to react.

In terms of handling methods, the first thing to do is to accept the child’s emotions and help the child identify and express his feelings. For example, if you ask him if it hurts after he gets beaten, he might think he’s sad. Guide him to express his emotions, and then further educate him to learn to protect himself. Teach children that when facing bullying from others, the most important thing is to protect themselves from getting hurt and to stop violence. You can defend yourself, choose to leave, or tell your parents or teachers. Teach children to express themselves bravely when facing harm from others, and tell them in time: "I am unhappy about doing this." If the other party keeps provoking you, you can warn them, tell their parents or teachers, or fight back. In addition, if something has already happened, parents should not blame their children no matter how they behave. You can analyze with him how to solve this situation next time.