How to guide children during their rebellious period

We all know that children have a rebellious period when they grow up, especially when children become sensible. They will have their own opinions on their own affairs. Parents will look at things from their perspective, which will lead to children and parents having different views on the same thing, causing them to have differences in opinions. This will easily cause children to rebel. So how should children be guided during their rebellious period?

Trick 1: Restrain yourself and act like an old educator. In the eyes of children, we often treat them with an educational attitude, which will make them feel bored. Once they feel bored, their learning will be greatly affected, because we have also been through that stage. In that rebellious period, what we hated most was of course the parents' bombardment of education all day long. Because, in the process of our education, it is inevitable that we will not be able to control the scale and will be excessive. At this time, the children will definitely get tired of listening for a long time. At this time, let alone the parents' efforts to educate their children well, as a child, even looking at their parents for one more time will feel annoying, redundant and unbearable. At this time, we need to restrain our educational attitude more, be more calm, and try not to provoke them as much as possible. Since we want to educate, we must enter calmly and don't force it.

Trick 2: Talk to your children often and get close to them. Children in their rebellious period need more care and love. Only with more care and love can they calm down and listen to adults, and follow adults' ideas calmly. As parents, we should often chat, talk and get close to our children, so that they feel that their parents are the people they can confide in, and home is that unique warm harbor. In this case, children will confide in their parents when they have something to say. We should establish good communication channels with them, communicate more, and avoid building a wall that blocks communication between parents and children, which is not conducive to children smoothly passing through the rebellious period.

Trick three: Be more considerate and less nagging. There are many ways to be considerate. Some people like to express concern with words, and some like to comfort with physical touch, for example, patting the shoulder, patting the back, or putting their arm around the shoulder. These are all fine. Don't underestimate these small actions. Although they are just small actions, the effect is very significant. We might as well give it a try and nag as little as possible, especially for us mothers. Most of the time, mothers may like to nag more. Not only does nagging not work, but it can be counterproductive. These are all very important in children's education. Although it is just a small action or a small look, its effect is significant.

Finally, I wish our children to grow up healthily and make more contributions to the motherland in the future.