What to do if your child is psychologically fragile

Many clinical diseases are related to psychological factors, so psychological adjustment of children is very important. There are many types of mental illnesses, and many children also have psychological fragility problems. If psychological fragility is not adjusted, it may have a great impact on children's lives as well as their psychological and physical health. When children are psychologically fragile, adults can provide care in many ways. But what should we do if children are psychologically fragile?

1. Don’t spoil your children and let them learn to be independent

Childhood is usually the period when parents dote on their children the most and usually provide them with the best living conditions. At this time, parents should slowly begin to cultivate his independence and let him try to complete a task independently. This independence is not only independence in life, but also includes the skills of how to survive in society. Parents should set an example for their children, have an optimistic attitude towards life, and be friendly to others. In addition, parents should not ignore their children's strengths and interests, but also cultivate their ability to think independently, so that they can truly have their own space for independent growth.

2. Frustration education is essential

During his teaching, Barens discovered that some parents nowadays always keep an eye on their children, not letting them out of their sight. If they fall, they will immediately help them up and then comfort them in various ways. In fact, this is very detrimental to the growth of children. A child’s behavior when facing setbacks can reveal whether he or she is mentally strong enough. Parents should try to give their children difficult problems within a safe range and let them learn to solve them themselves.

3. Long-term spiritual communication

The correct way of communication between parents and children should be equal. Parents should form a friendship with their children and not always teach their children as elders. They should put aside their status. Only in this way can they better understand the inner world of their children and find out the root cause of their children's inner fragility. Try to communicate more often, which can not only help your child open up his mind, but also help him solve problems.