What should I do if my daughter has a bad temper?

Every parent hopes that their child has a good temper, is easy to educate and obedient, but if they meet a child with a bad temper, many parents are helpless. For example, some girls are very stubborn and don’t want to do things no matter what their parents say. The problem can only be solved by beating and scolding. So what should we do if our daughter has a bad temper? Here are some ways to deal with your daughter's bad temper.

What should I do if my daughter has a bad temper?

First, explain the truth to your children clearly and do not criticize or scold them harshly. When children do not do what their parents ask, the first thing parents should do is to explain the reason to the children, tell them why they should do so and make them accept it. Never educate your children in a threatening tone or in a rude manner. This is a long process and it will be effective if you persist for a certain period of time.

Second, we must learn to deal with children who refuse to listen to reason and are too willful in a cold way. For example, when a child cries and doesn't listen to the parents' advice, the parents can quietly observe from the side and ignore the child. The child will see that no one takes him/her seriously and will give up this way of expression over time. When your child loses his temper and becomes unreasonable, give him the cold shoulder and deal with it reasonably. Take the child to a quiet place and let him or her calm down; and let the child bear the corresponding consequences.

Third, parents should learn to respect their children’s opinions. For children's stubborn and willful behavior, give them the opportunity to express and explain, and let them clearly state the reasons why they insist on this matter. This can prevent parents from wrongly accusing their children. However, if parents do not give their children the opportunity to explain for a long time, and just treat their children's stubbornness roughly, slowly the children will stop communicating with you. So many parents are troubled, why don’t their children like to talk? This is because you unconsciously deprive him of the right to speak and disrespect him, so he learns to resist silently.

Parents should spend time with their children regularly, maintain an understanding attitude, and often do things to express their affection for them, such as nodding, patting their shoulders, touching their heads, leaning down to ask them what they just said, etc. For those children who demonstrate against their parents, parents should discuss solutions with their children and give them more choices. Parents should make some concessions at the appropriate time and slowly cultivate their children's ability to understand the truth.

What to do if your baby has an irritable personality

1. Establish necessary daily routines for children. Adults should help children arrange a safe, predictable, and child-friendly daily routine, and consider activities that alternate between static and dynamic, lively, and diverse. Adults should attract children with rich and interesting life content, so that children are happy to carry out each activity on time. Be careful not to break the routine easily, so that children know what to do and when, and cannot do whatever they want. Children who have a regular life are more likely to maintain stable emotions.

2. Create a peaceful and harmonious family atmosphere for children. Adults talk to each other in a pleasant and soft voice at home, respect each other and live in harmony. Emotions are easily affected by the environment, and a good and harmonious family environment is conducive to the formation of more stable emotions in children.

3. Set an example and influence your children with positive and stable emotions. Adults should control their emotions in front of children and not let their mood swings affect their children.

4. Overcome children’s willfulness and eliminate negative emotions. A willful child is extremely emotionally unstable; he will smile happily if others agree with him, but he will lose his temper and cry if things don't go his way. Adults should correct children's willfulness with a calm attitude and flexible methods. For example, take temporary avoidance approach, ignore the child's crying; use interesting things to attract his attention.

What causes babies to be irritable?

Because children are young, their nervous activity is highly excitable and weakly inhibited, so they cannot sustain activities for long, their interests vary, and their attention is easily distracted. Generally, children's attention span is 5 to 10 minutes. If it exceeds this time, they will become irritable. Children do not have enough perseverance and willpower, and only hope to finish it all in a short time. However, the actual situation is often not as they wish, so they just skim the surface and finish the work in a hurry to relieve the anxiety in their hearts.

A child’s personality is often related to his or her parents. If children live in a harmonious environment, they will be affected. At the same time, you can set some rules for your children to follow. Of course, in order to help your children establish good habits, parents need to adopt some methods. Next, parents must correctly handle situations where their children lose their temper and be sure to correct these bad habits.