Reasons for children's low self-esteem

Only by creating a healthy and happy environment for children can they develop a positive and optimistic character. But most children are carefree, so most of them often have smiles on their faces. However, there are still some parents who find that their children are very inferior, and this inferiority has seriously affected their normal learning ability and ability to make friends. At this time, it is very important for parents to understand the reasons why their children develop inferiority complex.

Causes of children's low self-esteem

1. Parents’ education is too strict, simple and rough.

2. The management of boarding schools is too strict. Children who are not with their parents will more or less lose their sense of security.

3. Discrimination from his classmates: The child is often beaten, bullied, and even spat on. Growing up in such a family and school environment, children's early socialization process is seriously affected by negative factors, making it impossible for children to establish a good self-image. He definitely has some compulsive behaviors, which may gradually develop into obsessive-compulsive disorder.

Solution:

1. Parents should change the way they speak and pay attention to the content of their speech. They should encourage their children more, give them more love, spend more time with them, understand their children's psychology, give them some simpler tasks that they can complete with a little effort, praise them for their success, and let them experience the joy and happiness of success.

2. Parents should let their children have a correct understanding of themselves, accept themselves, admit their own flaws or shortcomings, tell their children some inspirational stories of celebrities to motivate them, let them discover their own shining strengths, teach their children to compare with others, and not compare their own shortcomings with others' strengths, for example: the child may not be good at studying, but may be good at sports.

3. Parents should tell their children that you are yourself and you are unique. Academic performance does not mean anything. It just means that you are not interested in learning, or you don’t like the way the teacher explains. It is not because you are stupid or not as intelligent as them. It is not your fault. Don’t feel inferior and unhappy. Believe that if you like to learn, you can learn faster and better than them. Believe in yourself and cheer for yourself. Your parents believe in you.

4. Parents should be friends with their children, listen carefully to their children's voices, give them more love, and not let their children receive incomplete love. It is best to give their children a complete home. The love of one party alone is difficult to make up for the emotional trauma of the child.

The above article has told you that children need to grow up in a healthy environment, not in a family environment of discord. It is best for children to have a lot of learning content from an early age and to develop different specialties. This kind of education method will not easily make children feel inferior, but will make them more confident!